Poor Widow

Written 17.05.2015 15:25 under Archive

”He who is kind to the poor widow lends to the LORD, and he will reward him for what he has done” Prov. 19:17
 
Hi again, beloved friends,
 

I admit that I am really sorry to send out a cry for help so soon again.
This time the problem is a poor widow whose husband died several years ago from a heart attack. He left behind his wife and five children. We have known the woman and the children for a few years.
Mama Oberline had a tragic accident. Recently, we have had some heavy showers and many places were flooded including this woman’s house.
On the first morning after the rainfall she wanted to make some tea for the children before they went off to school she wanted to take some firewood in order to light a fire in the fireplace that consisted of three stones.
 
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As she was reaching out for a piece of wood she discovered with terror that a big cobra had hidden in the stack of wood and before she had time to run away it had bitten her leg, which immediately began to swell. The cobra had probably crawled up in the wood due to the flood.
Mama Oberline cried for help and immediately a neighbor came running and tied something tight around her leg in order that the poison should not spread in the body. The neighbor quickly called for someone to transport her and she was taken by motorbike to the nearest minibus, which again took her to the hospital. As she reached the hospital, the poison had spread to the whole body and she was beginning to turn blind and on the verge of unconsciousness
 
Fortunately, the hospital had some serum against snake bites and they gave her some shots. As her situation was very critical and her life was in danger she stayed in the hospital for several days.
Unfortunately they did not manage to kill the snake and therefore they are afraid that it may return to the shed.
 
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It is now a month ago and she has recovered reasonably after the incident. Her eyesight is slowly coming back, but the leg is still numb and therefore she is still unable to go to work. She used to be a day-laborer working in the fields, washing clothes or the like. These jobs have provided her with money for food.
The problem is that the children are afraid to sleep in the shed which is very leaky and therefore snakes can easily get in and hide.
We just went to see her and to inspect the situation. The shed is divided in two, partly kitchen and partly bedroom for the children.
 
Before the father passed away he had been building a small brick house with two rooms. For several years it has remained in the state as shown in the picture and we were surprised to see that the walls still look fine.
We very much would like to help this widow with five children aged 11-20 years.
We would like to help her finish the house so that the children may have a safe bedroom where they do not have to fear for any snakes. The costs to put on a roof, furbish the walls, lay a floor and put in doors and windows will amount to approx. DKK 15,000.
 
I just had to share this experience with you because I am burdened with the situation and wish for this poor widow and her children that they receive a safe place to sleep. At the moment, until a solution is found the children spend the nights at the neighbor’s house.
The oldest of the boys is a mechanic apprentice which takes three years. When he is finished it is our hope that he will get a good job and help take care of his mother. Two of the boys are in secondary school and the last one in elementary school.
 
I am sorry if you think that we beg too much, because we do not wish to do that. But our hearts really go out this poor family. Oftentimes we see that ’many a little makes a mickle’ and this would be the case here too.
If 15 people give 1,000 DKK or 30 give 500 DKK then the money is collected.

 
Any gifts may be transferred to our mission cashier, Willy Højgård
IBAN Account: DK 7097 1207 4179 3075
Swift/Bic code: JYSPDK2G
Den Jyske Sparekasse,
Borgergade 3,
7200 Grindsted
Please mark it: MBU TZ ”Snake bite”
 
 
Love from Tabitha

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    [post_content] =>  En masaipige ved navn Ruth Lucas, som går i Form 4 (Secondary school), bor sammen med sin mor og mormor her i Arusha. A Maasai girl by the name of Ruth Lucas who is in Form 4 (secondary school) lives with her mother and grandmother in Arusha. 
Faderen er forsvundet, og de har ingen kontakt haft med ham i flere år. Ruth er meget dygtig i skolen. Skolen, hun går på, har sponsoreret hendes skolegang, da de er så fattige. Af forskellige årsager er hendes skole netop blevet lukket, og Ruth har skullet ud og finde en anden skole.
 
Moderen har ikke råd til at sende Ruth i en anden skole. Ruths bedstefar, som er masai, vil have Ruth tilbage til masailandet. Han mener, at en pige ikke skal tage en uddannelse, men i stedet følge masaiernes tradition for piger: at blive gift. Masaierne mener, at kun drengene skal have en uddannelse.
 
Ruths mor fortalte, at Ruths morfar havde fået et tilbud fra en ældre, velhavende masai, der vil betale en meget stor brudepris i form af mange køer for at få Ruth. Ruth har været helt utrøstelig, for hun ønsker at fortsætte sin skolegang, få en uddannelse og selv vælge sin mand, når den tid kommer. Derfor kom moderen og Ruth til vores kontor for at bede om hjælp.
 
I tro sendte vi Ruth på en god, kristen skole, hvor hun er meget glad for at være.
 
Vi har fået en sponsor, der vil gøre hendes Form 4 færdig. Men Ruth ønsker at forsætte yderligere to år, så hun afslutter med en studentereksamen. Hvis der er nogen, som gerne vil hjælpe hende videre, så skriv til os eller send en gave til vores missionskonto. Pengene skal øremærkes ”Ruth”.
 




 The father disappeared and they have had no contact with him for several years. Ruth is a bright girl in school. Her school decided to sponsor her schooling because they are really poor. For various reasons the school recently shut down and Ruth had to find another school.
 
The mother cannot afford to send Ruth to another school. Ruth’s grandfather is a Maasai and he wants to have her back in Maasai land. He does not want a girl to get eductaed, but instead follow the Maasai traditions for girls: to be married. Maasais think that only boys should get educated.
 
Ruth’s mother told me that Ruth’s grandfather had received an offer from an elderly, wealthy Maasai who wanted to pay a very large dowry in the form of many cows in order to marry Ruth. Ruth had been desperate because she wanted to stay in school, get her education and choose her husband when the time was ripe. For this reason the mother and Ruth came to our office asking for help.
 
We trusted God and sent Ruth to a good, Christian school where she is thriving.
 
We received a sponsor who will support her until Form 4 is completed. But Ruth wishes to continue for another two years and graduate from High School. If any of you would like to support Ruth for a few more years please write us or send a gift to our missions account. Please earmark it “Ruth”.
 


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